I’m not sure how to really write this post but I’m stumped for another topic and this one is just bugging me, so out it comes.
I had a question on my last post. I specifically asked the readers to give me their opinion. No one has to, I know that, but I figured it was worth a try. I heard from my mom, and a friend on facebook. Not one other person offered an opinion. I know people aren’t quick to comment, and I respect that, since a lot of my posts are random babbling about Dekker doing silly things around the house, and that is not super interesting to everyone. I get that! But seriously, not one comment?! I had 57 views on yesterdays post specifically, and plenty more who visited the homepage itself and likely viewed that post, as it was first. Does no one actually read? Do you guys just look at the pictures and go onto something else?
I got pretty frustrated by this yesterday, and lost sleep. I think its ridiculous that it bothered me so much, because it definitely is something I do for me, not you. I promised myself that I would do this to keep record of my life and invite people along for the ride. It got so much easier to want to write as my numbers of views got higher and higher. Yet now, this happens, and it makes me wonder if people click my link, look for pictures, see there is none, and leave. I put effort into these posts! But I guess I need to keep reminding myself that even if I got no views, it would still be good to continue the writings for myself.
I’m sorry for ranting, and if I’m completely off-base, please forgive me. I am thankful the views.
I’m always hesitant to give an opinion on something I have no wisdom about: I had no clue what size the toque is nor what size the 4 year old’s head is. I assumed there would be readers who had much more insight to offer! (And I still have no opinion :-))
Pictures are always a treat, but I have email set to block images and have to remember to “allow”…..so I often read text only and forget there might BE pictures. I would say I post a comment about a quarter of the times I think of something to say. Anything more and I’d feel like a stalker! For me, your blog is a pleasure-read, a selfish delight, a gift from you…….. and I THANK you for sharing it.
I appreciate so much that you read 🙂 I respect that not everyone knows head size, haha, I am not personally offended when I get no comments, I just wish they were there! I think that makes sense right? I don’t want anyone to take it the wrong way. But yes, you have found an idea balance between love and stalker 😉
I didn’t know the size of a four year old head either, sis. But I suppose I could have told you that Gracey and I were admiring those awesome slippers. Very cool. I was actively trying to figure out in my mind if there was any context in which a guy like me could pull off kicks like those … but I came up empty … just like on the toque-size issue 🙂
No worries. I’m feeling bad after this post, a lot of people seem to think I’m pretty upset. And i’m not! I just was surprised.
I’m glad you like the slippers though! They might be a bit too dainty for you though!
I enjoy every post you write.. but yesterday I hadn’t even read it.. as I was busy busy.. but I went back and looked at it.. and in my opinion.. it would fit a 4 year old.. may be a teeny bit too big.. but hey.. not like they can’t grow into it right? Take care Hailey!! PS I love your work and can’t wait for my slouchy hat!! 🙂
Thanks for reading, Amber! And for liking my stuff 🙂 And for your opinion on the toque! I’m a little nervous about the size but she is a very forgiving friend so I’m sure we’ll work something out 🙂