This boy. Our dear Rowan. Turns eleven today. This year of Rowan has been totally incredible.
He is really, truly figuring himself out. He has way more good days than bad. It doesn’t mean all days are easy by any means, but he will put in new efforts because he can see the fruits of his labour, and he prefers that result to the alternative. Along with that, he has been able to have closer, happier, healthier relationships with his siblings, which is SO amazing to finally witness! He loves to wrestle with Dekker, and he and Solly could talk all day about things like Lego, Minecraft, etc. Rowan and Laela have always clicked easier, and they continue to. And now, just in the last few weeks, Rowan is developing a soft spot for her. She loves everyone without holding back, including him, and has immediately melted into his love for her.
It is SO nice to see him let down a bit, and then slowly watch his siblings follow suit. Easily the best part of this last year over all.
We celebrated his birthday all weekend, which really turned out perfectly considering we had a sick day in there, and important church stuff in there, too. This way, he got his meals, he got to watch a movie he was excited about, and he got presents on both days. Check out what auntie gave him! 😳😍
I think it will be REALLY precious to him over the years. Right now, its super cool, but as he ages, I hope he can treasure the time and care that went into this, to celebrate how beautiful he is.
This boy is a very important part of our family. He is deeply loved and treasured. As disjointed as this weekend ended up being, it was clear he felt special and celebrated.
Goodness, Rowan, how we love you. I see EVERY side of our family in your beautiful face, and I am positively loving watching you grow up! I love you and love you and love you again.
Happy eleventh birthday, Rowan!! 🥳