Apparently we have no idea “what to expect”

So to begin this post, I feel like I should tell you guys I had a contraction last night, and I do not mean a braxton hicks contraction. I mean a real one. I kind of had a cramp while I was laying down, and when that happens, I usually opt to change up what I’m doing, going from sitting to standing, or standing to laying down, etc. I was laying/sitting in bed when I got this really nasty cramp so I tried to stand up and literally lost my breath. Of course, it was a small contraction in comparison to active labor, but kind of out of the blue, it was killer. I think these types of things happen more often to people who are really exerting themselves, and I clearly was not. So who knows. I woke up to one this morning as well. I thought another one was coming soon afterwards, but that movement was just baby. She is determined to stay horizontal as long as possible and not to be a super whiner, but its really painful and extra tiring to have her that way. Its getting pretty annoying actually. However, all of this considered, I am 28 weeks along! Officially in the third trimester! Doctors say that the chances of survival in a baby born over 28 weeks gestation is MUCH higher than a baby born before 28 weeks. While I know that some babies born later still pass away, and some babies born earlier still live, I know God is good and am choosing to have faith that I will carry to term and delivery a super healthy and completely gorgeous baby girl!

News: Baby girl will be cloth diapered. It is official! I purchased my first haul of diapers today off of Ebay πŸ™‚ I know everyone has their opinions and favorites and that is fabulous. Just pleaseΒ don’t bash my choice! I’m choosing to rock the Kawaii pocket diapers. I was eagerly searching out covers and prefolds, as that idea appealed to me almost more, but I was looking for used product and everywhere I looked, the pockets were cheaper and in bigger lots! Plus, the deal we got today was an Ebay auction for diapers new in packages. 24 Kawaii pocket diapers with 48 large inserts, and we won them for $130! I’m actually very happy for that, since I find a lot of people trying to sell them on kijiji even for $10/diaper. This is MUCH better! I also have a haul of them in Winnipeg waiting to be picked up for me by a friend (thank you!!!) so I’m getting pretty revved up. I figure if all of a sudden baby needs more padding or we’re just unprepared (since we’re new) then we can just buy a bunch of prefolds and still use the pocket diapers just as covers. Done and done. After the diapers, we just need to buy a few wet bags and a big diaper pail, and we should be good! I’m sooo excited!

Who knew I would ever even consider going down this road?! Not I. But the other day I was reminiscing and I realized Dekker got his first yeast diaper rash at 13 months. He has been on some kind of prescription cream since then basically. On and off of them at best. How did I let it go so long?? I’m feeling more and more guilty about that, and thatΒ is the main reason for my change of heart. I’m all for the environment and everything, but I’m also really anti-rash and very pro-cheap. If I treat these diapers well, they could be used for Dekker to finish out his diaper stage of life (if they fit), for baby girl, and hypothetical next babies! I’m sure some will disintegrate over time, and we’ll likely replace liners, but the savings are pretty exciting. I’m lame, I know, but poor Brady has heard nothing other than cloth diaper information for days and I need a new outlet.

It is the end of the day. It was a really good day, but my body is feeling super fatigued, to be honest. Brady drummed at church today which left me on my own with Dekker. We’re on our own a lot, but it was a joint service so there were lots of unfamiliar people around so Dekker wanted to be held the entire time. We finally just sat down. My arms were ready to give and my ribs are paying for it now. We spent the afternoon with my parents, aunt, and cousins, which was super lovely and low key. I loved it. But I am really looking forward to a soak and a snack, as per usual.

Hope everyone has a great long weekend! We’re celebrating by sending Brady to work. YAY for being self-employed! :p

Kim Bitner

Excited for you in the cloth diaper realm! I used cloth on Bailey for about a year, and Deacon a few months – I stopped because got a new washing machine and I was too lazy to work out a good wash routine after having it nailed on the old machine. Lame excuse πŸ˜‰ People think they are a lot of work but I actually found it freeing compared to disposables…they actually helped me keep up with laundry rather than me dying under the mountain of dirty clothes because I would get clothes done before I knew I had to do a diaper load. One tip if you want to use them on Dekker with his yeast rash, I have heard it is difficult to get the yeast out of cloth diapers, compounding the problem, so read up on the best way to clean them. Good luck!

haileyjeanne

Oh good tip on the yeast thing! We’ve kicked the rash for the moment but we seem to be stuck on the prescription cream. We were super on the ball about it and let his bum air dry waaay longer, and after about two days he had yeast again. Sigh. Beats me! I’m thinking we’ll have to deal until he’s potty trained. So I will DEFINITELY research that! Thanks for the reminder. I would have never thought of it!!!

Willa

Praying for a real sleep for you tonight…..a refreshing sleep. I am SO proud of you for going cloth. . .your kids are blessed. I never knew there were so many options! Hey, here a website that is from a midwifing book I love. It’s got some good techniques for helping baby to reposition….. and I love the stories. Position is pretty irrelevant/likely to change up to 36+ and no worry now, but who knows, maybe there’s something here for your comfort: http://spinningbabies.com/

haileyjeanne

Great idea Willa! I was kind of wondering what I could do just to keep an eye on things and ensure babys position. You’re right, she can switch up for quite some time still, but it wouldn’t hurt to do my research and my part! And I’m really excited about the new diapers πŸ™‚ Glad I’m not the only one! Remind me how good it is when I want to bail out please!

Nikki Bergman

Haven’t personally tried Kawaii diapers, but I’ve heard good things. Good choice with a pocket diaper though. We used bumGenius brand and they worked great. There’s something about adorable, fluffy cloth diapers that makes dealing with diaper duty so much more exciting :p

haileyjeanne

Hahaha! Thats what Im hoping Nikki! I love when babies have that obviously cloth diapered ghetto booty πŸ™‚ Glad I know a few people who know about this stuff! I may be bugging you a bit shortly…